Today, 17th of August 2010 is the 20th birthday of my son, Yori. I would not be able to hug him tightly this time. I owe him a big one because he took over my desk work at home.
I would like to re-assure him that I am doing okay in Africa because I do not have to worry about the work that I left behind.
For doing a great job, and to continue to guide him as he becomes a young man, I want to share my favorite poem - Desiderata (www.healtalk.com) and the colors of Africa:
Go placidly amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself to others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the the world is full of trickery. But let not this blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is as perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all it's sham drudgery and broken dreams; it is still a beautiful world.
That's me at the center |
Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.
Thanks Mamai! Nice entry! It really made me happy. Wish you were here. We miss you! - Yori
ReplyDeleteya we miss you! mamai you are becoming really good at blogging already. :)
ReplyDeleteI wanted to post here a free Tagalog translation of your favorite poem but I guess it would be too long. However, do so when you want to - am sending it by regular email.
ReplyDeleteHi Ma'am.You look so happy and contented with your new world.The same goes with those around you now. They are very lucky and blessed to have you around.
ReplyDeleteBefore oblivion, senior moments and office / domestic work prevail, I wish you a very happy birthday in advance. May you have more happy birthdays and blessings to come. Muahs...
Belated happy birthday Ma'am Eve! May you always be safe and happy in Uganda. Looking forward to hear more of your wonderful experiences! May God bless you always! - Arvin
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